Do you think that it would be a healthy and ongoing relationship if the husband teaches his wife a lesson by getting even with her as a punishement?and vise versa?
Wouldn't that end up in a disaster?
Personally, i think it would be ridiculous if the husband or wife were to have that way of thinking
like for example, if she does/says something wrong or makes a mistake, does that make it right/better if her husband teaches her a lesson so she wont do it again????
I think that is a one way ticket to divorce. That wouldn't sound like a marriage to me. It's about communication and understanding. They are both equal. Not because if the man were older or smarter than her that gives him the right to do such a thing...or even the other way around.
If there is a problem, they should talk it out...not scream it out and expload! otherwise the problem will get bigger and the revenge will go back and forth.